good manners?

A: I advise you, madam, to sit with grace and propriety, letting the weight of your body fall upon your feet in front of the seat — that is, letting your lower legs rest upon the floor; for it is the beauty of your figure that you are guarding in the way you sit. And modesty must be observed, especially if you are in the presence of those older than yourself.

Q — When you step down from a car, a tram, or a bus, must you go before your companion or after him?

A: When you are about to leave a car, tram, or bus, you should step down after your companion if he is a man, so that it may be possible for him to help you down without stumbling. Wait a moment for him to

offer his hand; you will thus be safe from any danger that might befall you as you alight.

Q — How do you make your way to the dance floor? Do you go ahead of your companion, or let him lead you, or do the two of you walk side by side?

A: When you rise to dance, do not wait for your companion to lead you; walk before him gracefully and unhurriedly, taking care not to stumble against the tables and chairs. And know finally, madam, that the greater part of your success in your social life hangs upon how far you know these simple laws and how far you apply them in a natural, unaffected way. For it is not enough to know how to behave; you must practice this knowledge, and your practice of it must be natural, without any strain.