one partner refuses to grant the other's request. And sometimes a person finds himself unable to make his mate happy, or takes no comfort in his mate's happiness.

Here is a wife forever set against her husband: the poor man must weigh the effect of his words a thousand times before uttering them, lest she burst out screaming. She found no way out but to explain her condition to the psychologist, who found that this hostility went back to her childhood and her resentment against her father — and she was using the same weapon against her husband. When husband and wife see their life threatened by such a situation, they must look for outside help, after grasping the basic cause of the anger.

There is another cause of conflict, and that is personal incompatibility — as when one is sensitive and shows his feelings, while the other is reserved. The one displays his love and the other shrinks into himself and will not discuss his problems with his companion, considering him emotionally immature.

This is the result of the marriage of two persons unmatched in inclination and temperament, who did not study each other's natures and married under social pressure, or for fear of loneliness, or because the attraction between them was purely physical, without regard to the sound foundation of a happy marriage.

The problems arising from chil-dren and the family are important as well. If the children come between husband and wife, the sit-uation grows acute. The solution here is that the couple's problems be discussed out of the children's hearing, and that they preserve cheer and happiness in the family atmosphere so that their children may grow up naturally.

Material security is a difficult problem. The wife may go to extremes in spending while the man holds back from her, or the two may be equally at fault. Let us imagine a husband who gives his wife five liras for her personal

expenses for a whole week, while he himself does not hesitate to spend two hundred liras. Or let us think of a wife who keeps postponing a dangerous operation because she dares not tell her husband of the expense.

This too is solved if the couple takes the natural position and follows the philosophy that the money coming into the house belongs to both equally. The sum of the matter is that marital happiness depends on the love

between the two. They must therefore steer clear of rancor and hatred, which lead to evil consequences. When each seeks what will make the other happy, he has attained emotional matu-rity and true love; and when a person loves, he lays a firm foun-dation for a sound mind and body and becomes fit for an ideal mar-riage. And if we discover a fault in ourselves and work to correct it, we shall have taken a step forward — toward happiness!

How to prepare "Nido" milk powder

To obtain pure, wholesome milk equal to fresh milk

1 — Pour in boiled water of moderate heat.

2 — Then place the "Nido" milk powder on top of the water — never the other way around.

3 — Beat the mixture vigorously with an egg whisk or a clean spoon.

4 — The fresh milk is ready.

Nido milk powder

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