article · Issue No. 4, April 1947 · p. 10 p. 11

The World We Live In... and the World We Want!

Lily Badre

العالم الذي نعيش فيه .. والعالم الذي نريده ! · ليلى بدر

Last autumn a world women's congress was held in New York City, convened by a distinguished elite of American women headed by Mrs. Eleanor Roosevelt and Mrs. Alice McLean. Iraq was represented there, at the congress's invitation and by appointment of the government of His Majesty of Iraq, by the refined woman of letters Mrs. Maida al-Haydari Mahmoud. Lebanon was likewise represented by the distinguished pioneer of the renaissance, Miss Edma Bayoud.

The Woman's Voice had the honor of meeting her and speaking with her about this momentous congress, whose deliberations found a far-reaching echo in women's circles the world over.

She was on her way from America to Iraq when Mrs. Lily Badre was favored with a meeting with her. I found myself before an elegant lady about whom dignity, sweetness, and intelligence radiated. Her talk with me about the congress was ample and engaging — how I wished I could convey it all to the readers of The Woman's Voice; but for lack of space, I have preferred to convey from it what concerns the descriptive side of the congress.

The gracious lady said:

The congress was arranged by Mrs. Alice McLean, one of the friends of Mrs. Eleanor Roosevelt, one of the prominent ladies of America, and president of the association of American women volunteers for aiding the American army during and after the Second World War. This lady had the thought that the world wants peace, and that woman has a great influence in the making of this peace. So she invited to meet with her nearly a hundred prominent women of America for an exchange of ideas to this end. These in their turn decided to invite the women of the world, and they named this congress or assembly "The World We Live In — The World We Want..."

As for the aim of this congress, it was to study the world's economic, political, social, and spiritual problems in the cause of the understanding that leads to the desired peace. In pursuance of this aim, invitations were sent to all the nations of the world, and fifty-four nations answered the call. The total came to three hundred persons. The participating members, however, numbered two hundred and fifty, representing different principles, socialist and democratic of their various kinds. The congress lasted twenty days: fifteen of them at Mrs. McLean's farm, eight of them for the congress's discussions, and the remaining days for studying American country life, for amusement, and for rest. The discussions were divided equally among the four following subjects: the political, the economic, the social, and the spiritual. At the first meeting we decided unanimously: First — to adopt no resolution upon our discussions, for we felt that congresses are now many and resolutions more numerous still, but the carrying-out of them scant; better, then, to leave the profiting from the congress's principles to individual action.

Second — not to speak of national problems, because they breed tension among the various nations.

On the last day Mrs. Eleanor Roosevelt honored the congress and delivered an address welcoming us and recalling woman's importance in a lasting peace — for woman is a "mother" — and likewise the importance of knowing foreign languages for understanding among the different peoples. At last the congress came to an end, as everything must. We returned to New York, having learned that two days later we would gather in a general assembly at the largest hotel in the world: the Waldorf Astoria.

This is a brief, comprehensive word on what befell us during the time the congress was in session. As for some of what we discussed and agreed upon, in summary it is this: First — the specter of fear that now dominates the world must be wiped away. Among the most important means of wiping away this specter is that the body of the United Nations should have a strong authority, so that it may be respected and obeyed by all nations.

Second — an international commission must be formed to know the secret of the atomic bomb, or else this secret must be made public; the use of this force, or of any weapon, must then be abolished until the democratic order prevails in the full sense of the word — that is, until there are governments of the people and for the people, independent, free, bound by the sense of right.

Third — man in this world must have a standard of living that fits him to be an effective citizen in his society.

Fourth — we did not discuss the problems of woman, because the problem of woman was considered solved now that Western woman has taken her rights and become man's equal. We therefore discussed, in general terms, culture, health, and the like. Culture begins in childhood, for the growth of character; then in the stage of adolescence, for the growth of principles; then in maturity, when character and principles come together and are applied in life. All felt that every fanaticism is harmful to the child; we must therefore encourage lessons in social studies, so that the pupil may appreciate and respect the culture, governments, history, and religions of other nations, and so his mind may broaden. The pupil must be encouraged to know world events at whatever time, and thus be trained to use his own mind in solving life's problems of every kind. But before all else, he must be fed, must have a dwelling, and his material and moral life must be secured. Finally, we must teach him a comprehensive foreign language in addition to his own, that he may come to an understanding with the members of other nations.

Fifth — the affairs of mind and spirit are the road to happiness, and they are the lasting things. Religion is the worship of one God; and if we worship God and follow His guidance, we shall attain that longed-for happiness.

Miss Edma Bayoud

As for Miss Edma Bayoud, she received me at the Cooperation Club in Beirut, where she works with her companions in the service of Lebanese woman

and Lebanese society. How great was my admiration for her intelligence and the breadth of her knowledge of social affairs! And no wonder, for Miss Bayoud possesses rare gifts, polished by experience, whether gained through attending international congresses or through the activity she has carried on in the social field.

She too spoke to me at length about the congress, and I have preferred to convey from her talk what concerns the most important impressions the congress left upon her. Here they are, as she recounted them to me:

First: The world has become more of a single whole than it was before. Hence the thinking that prevails in the Western world is worldwide, all-embracing thinking. As for us, our thinking is still, regrettably, shrunk in upon itself. We care for nothing but ourselves, as if we lived cut off from the rest of mankind. If we only realized that whatever befalls any spot of the earth affects us here, whether directly or indirectly, we would not take this stand in our thinking.

Second: I was moved by what I saw of the pains Western woman has borne and still bears for the sake of building a better world. As for us, we have not suffered, and do not suffer, enough in this cause.

Third: The overwhelming majority of the world's women today have attained equality with man in political rights — even in Japan, after the last war. France and Italy, too, have lately granted woman these rights. In Lebanon and the Arab world, however, matters are still as they were, as if the last war had not been enough to convince us, as it convinced others, that woman's participation is most necessary in all the affairs of life and society. We must therefore concern ourselves seriously with giving woman in Lebanon and the other Arab lands the right to vote and to share in the administration of the country's affairs. For a country, as the famous saying has it, rises no higher than the level of its women.

Fourth: My attention was caught by Western woman's concern with moral building rather than material building. She therefore directs her care to children, in her belief that they alone are the foundation on which the future rests. We here do not attend properly to this important point.

Fifth: I marveled exceedingly at the freedom people enjoy in the West, whether freedom of thought or freedom of speech and action. How I wished that we here might enjoy this freedom! Delegates joined the congress from all parts of the world, professing different opinions and creeds, and each one of them would voice her opinion in complete freedom; the discussion would proceed with no partisanship except to reason and logic. I recall that when the Palestine question was raised at one of the meetings, the desire to understand its point of view was keen, even among the Jewish women. The American women expressed to us their sharing in our feeling of the injustice done to the Arabs in Palestine, and they wished that all the women of the world might be enabled to acquaint themselves thoroughly with the Arab point of view on the subject.

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